April 28, 2024
Acts 8.26-40; 1 John 4.7-21; John 15.1-8
+ As I
near the 20th anniversary of my ordination to the Priesthood on June
11—we’ll be celebrating here at St. Stephen’s on June 9—I have found myself
somewhat introspective, but kind of retrospective, fi you know what I mean.
I’ve been
looking inward
And I’ve
been looking back.
Looking
back over my 20 years as a priest.
I will go
into more depth about all of this on June 9th in my sermon, but I
have been thinking long and hard about some of the stances I have made that
have put me, shall we say, outside the norm for priests, especially in this
diocese.
One situation
in particular rose to the forefront this past week as I pondered our scripture reading
today from the Book of Acts.
Way back,
in the beginning days of my priestly ministry, I was asked by some wonderful parishioners
at the congregation I served to do a baptism for these parishioner’s twin
granddaughters.
I was
close to this family—I loved them dearly—and I was honored to do so.
The
family requested however that the baptism be done in the chapel of the church.
In that
chapel was a columbarium, in which the ashes of people were interred.
And the
great-grandfather of these twins was interred there.
They wanted
it there so that we could include the great-grandfather’s memory in baptism.
I thought
it was a beautiful sentiment, and so I said sure, why not?
We planned
the service between Sunday morning Masses, so that we could include anyone who
wanted to come to be present, but so there wasn’t a disruption of the liturgy
with a procession to the chapel rather to the regular baptismal font in the church.
Well, as
sweet and nice and beautiful as this all sounded, it did not sit well with the
clergy in charge.
I don’t
know if they were offended by what they viewed as a unilateral decision by this
upstart assisting priest who served in their parish.
And, to
be fair to them, I will give them that.
I SHOULD
have received their OK to do these things before I gave an OK to the family.
But I did
not think it would be an issue.
Well, it
most certainly WAS an issue.
And after
being reprimanded by them, I was then summarily summoned to the Bishop’s
office, who also reprimanded me for this situation, at the behest of these
clergy.
Before you
start thinking less of me, if you believe
that I just humbly and sweetly took these reprimands quietly, let me assure
you, I did not!
I sat through
the clergy reprimand biting the inside of my lips until they bled.
I tried
to defend myself, but it was two against one.
And you
all know how I LOVE to be ganged up on….
But when
I was summoned to the Bishop’s office, reprimanded and then told to make a
formal apology to the clergy, I protested.
And I protested
loudly.
Now, if I
had violated the relationship with the clergy, I considered it resolved after
they reprimanded me and I then apologized them to them in that meeting.
But to
have the Bishop reprimand me after the clergy and then demand that I make a
public formal apology was a bit much.
And his reason
for reprimanding me had nothing to do with my overreaching my role as an
assisting clergyperson.
It had to
do with the rubrics.
The rubrics
are those italicized instructions we find in the Book of Common Prayer---the
stage directions, so to speak.
So, let’s
turn in our Prayer Books to those rubrics for Holy Baptism
On page 298.
The
argument was that the rubrics say on page 298, second paragraph, that “Holy Baptism
is appropriately administered within the Eucharist at the chief service on a
Sunday or other feast.”
I, of
course, as well as every single clergy person in the Episcopal Church, am bound
by my ordination vows to conform to the “doctrine, discipline and worship of
the Episcopal Church,” which means those rubrics.
And I do
so, “with God’s help.”
But if you
want to see my hackles rise, just bring me into contact with so-called “rubric
Nazis.”
I argued
my case, saying that rubrics are not emphatic on that whole principal service,
and that the Prayer Book actually does give us an opportunity to baptize at
other times other than the primary liturgy of Sunday morning.
We went
round and round about this until I finally realized I was going to lose.
After all,
what did some newly ordained poet-priest know about such things language?
But I did
get one last shot in before I conceded.
I picked
up a Bible and placed it before the Bishop and I said, “please tell me where,
in the Book of Acts, is says that Philip baptized the Ethiopian Eunuch during
the “chief service on a Sunday.”
I didn’t
get an answer, other than “don’t be difficult, Jamie.”
And sadly,
that did not win my case.
I lost.
And yes, those
babies were baptized.
By another assisting priest at that parish.
Between services.
On a Sunday.
In the
chapel.
Just as
it was originally requested and planned.
*Sigh.*
But. . .
.I have thought a lot about that reading from Acts over my years as a priest.
This has
been a very important scripture to me for some time, and not just because of
that baptism way back then.
The
introduction of the Ethiopian Eunuch is vital for us—especially those of us who
are a sexual minority in the Church.
The
Ethiopian Eunuch is a marginalized person—a person who is not allowed to be included
in the Jewish fellowship because of the castration that was done to them.
But for Philip
to accept this person--who by Jewish Law could not be considered fertile, who
would by some be seen as a barren branch, someone who could not live out the
commandment to be fruitful and multiply--and baptize them and include them in
the fellowship of Christ is a story of radical acceptance and inclusion.
Of course,
the Ethiopian eunuch is important to Transgender people, who relate to the
Eunuch.
But the
Eunuch is important to people like me who are asexual, who also definitely
relate to the Ethiopian Eunuch.
In the Ethiopian
Orthodox Church, the eunuch is actually named and seen as a saint.
They are
given the name St. Bachos and in the Easter Orthodox Church St. Simeon
(sometimes referred to together as St. Simeon Bachos).
In this
story we see how radically inclusive and revolutionary the act of Baptism can
be.
And
should be.
As
baptized followers of Jesus, as Christians and Episcopalians who are striving
to live out the Baptismal Covenant in our lives, we know that to be relevant,
to be vital, we must be truly fruitful.
In
today’s Gospel, we find Jesus giving us a glimpse of what this means
“I am the
vine, you are the branches,” Jesus tells us.
The
effective branch bears fruit.
Our job
as Christians is do just that.
It is to
bear fruit.
Now, this
takes on a very different meaning when we consider St. Simeon Bachos, the Ethiopian
Eunuch, or trans people or asexual people.
Being
fruitful in this sense means being spiritual fruitful, being fruitful in bringing
about the Kingdom of God abundantly.
Bearing
fruit means, growing and changing and flourishing and being open minded.
We do it
here at St. Stephen’s by doing something that might not seem trendy.
We do it
with our ancient form of worship.
We do it
with the Eucharist.
We do it
with taking what we do here, breaking bread and sharing bread with each other, on
Sundays, and then going out doing just that in the world.
And in
doing that, we make a difference in the world.
That is
what it means to is to be effective as Christians.
Being a
Christian means living out our faith—fully and completely, in every aspect of
our lives.
And
living out our faith as followers of Jesus means that we must be pliable to
some extent.
And we
must be fertile.
We must
go with change as it comes along.
We must
remain relevant.
Now that
doesn’t mean we throw the baby out with the bathwater.
In fact
it means embracing and holding tightly to what we have do well.
We
respect and honor and celebrate our tradition, our history, our past.
But we
aren’t bound to it by some kind of noose.
We are
not called to serve rubrics.
Rubrics
are meant to serve us, to make our worship meaningful and beautiful, to keep
things in line so that our liturgies don’t become circuses.
Being a
Christian, following Jesus means that we will following him by being fruitful
and growing and flourishing, by making a difference in the world.
We are
doing positive and effective things in the world.
We are
transforming the world, bit by bit, increment by increment, baby step by baby
step.
As we are told in our Epistle reading today, "God is love."
We are being
the conduits through which God who is love works in our lives and in the lives
of those around us.
This is
what it means to follow Jesus.
That is
what it means to be reflectors of God’s Love on those around us.
This is
what means to be a positive Christian example in the world.
And when
we do this, we realize that we are really doing is evangelizing.
We are
sharing our faith, not only with what we say, but in what we do.
That is
what it means to be a Christian—to be a true follower of Jesus in this
constantly changing world.
That is
what it means to bear good fruit.
So, let
us do just that.
Let us
bear fruit.
Let us
flourish and grow and be vital fruit to those who need this fruit.
Let us be
nourished by that Vine—by the One we follow—so that we can nourish others.
Amen.
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